Teaching my kids to be responsible with money is a cornerstone of the foundation I am building for them. I grew up poor, but I learned very early the value of a dollar. By elementary school I understood that buying a toy that lasts for less than a few minutes wasn’t worth all the work I put into earning the cash to pay for it. By the time I was a teenager my mother (a single mom of four) was a full time employee and attending college at night. She entrusted me with the weekly grocery budget. I planned every meal and snack for our family of six, and I learned how to double stack store sales with coupons. That may sound like a lot of responsibility for a teenager. But I never had to work while I was in high school because whatever money I saved in the grocery budget, I got to keep ($30 a week on average). It turned out to be an amazing life lesson.

As a parent I worry how to teach my kids what I learned by doing. Age six is a little too young to clip coupons and meal plan, but I believe they can still be in charge of their own money. Our kids do not earn money for routine chores like dishes, laundry and cleaning their rooms. But we do want them to learn that hard work pays off. So we pay them for more labor intensive jobs like yard work, washing the cars and cleaning up the garage. Over the last year they have each saved up $30! Instead of marching off to the toy store to buy one item, we told them they could have it to spend while we were on vacation. The caveat being they were responsible for purchasing their own souvenirs. Why? Because when mom and dad are buying, they think the sky is the limit. It’s easier to spend someone else’s money when you don’t know how much work went into earning it. Our decision paid off because the girls really thought about their budget when making their selections. They asked about prices and we helped them do the math and talked to them about adding in tax. I am proud of how quickly they accepted the new money rules, and really proud of how well they stuck to their budget.

My friends reactions after hearing this made me feel like maybe I was being a little too strict about money with my young kids. But according to Beth Kobliner, author of Make Your Kid A Money Genius (even if you’re not) this is completely age appropriate, and the first step to helping our kids become money geniuses.

We are already following many of the tips Beth outlines, but one thing we never thought about was including our kids in the weekly discussion of household finances. We are so focused on teaching them what we know vs. allowing them to experience where all our money goes. I honestly did not think that needed to happen until much later. Thankfully, Beth breaks down money concepts kids should know in preschool, elementary school, high school and beyond. There is also a section on how to save and pay for college. I feel like that discussion is so far away, but it will be here before I know it. Thankfully, I’ll be prepared with Beth’s step by step plan.

I also really love that this book includes character building tips surrounding money, like when to donate and how to give generously. I tend to give whatever change I have in my pockets to a Veteran, or sports kid shaking a can outside the grocery store. But I never thought to talk to my kids about why I give. The book begins by outlining how to talk to your kids about money, and each subsequent chapter is broken down into talking about paying off debt, better, smarter, spending how to give back and even smart advice for parents. Which even as good as I am with money there is always room to learn more!

Unless you are already working a job in the world of finance, this book is essential for parents of children ages 3-23! It is the perfect primer for talking to your kids about money concepts at every age and stage. Helping your child understand the value of money and how to use their dollars wisely will set them up for future success!

In what ways have you helped your child become a money genius?

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33 Comments on Friday Favorites- Make Your Kid A Money Genius (Even If You’re Not)

  1. This is an awesome book! My parents did great teaching me about money and I hope to do the same for my son. This looks like a great way to teach him.

  2. The value of money is such an important one for kids to understand, especially at a young age. It helps make sense of the world and wants/needs for them.

  3. That book sounds really awesome. I really do think money issues are inherited. My parents were terrible with money and it’s taken me years to figure out how to get my finances under control. This book sounds like a good read!

  4. I’ve seen this book around before online. It really looks like a great one! My oldest daughter needs all the money help she can get, because she doesn’t want to listen to me. I did luck out with my youngest…she’s a saver!

  5. I have been seeing this book talked about a lot and I am really interested in giving it a read! Such a great idea to get kids off on a good start!

  6. I think it is essential to teach your kids about money and budgeting. It is a valuable skill to have later on when you are responsible for buying things you took for granted as just having at home.

  7. What a fabulous idea – really like the sound of this book! Must be so useful. I also like the idea of teaching your children about money from a young age, they’ll grow up to appreciate it! x

  8. I agree that it’s important for kids to understand the value of money, and that’s not because I want my child to be materialistic but the exact opposite.

  9. I just bought this book. I’ve been struggling with teaching my 4 year old the value of money. She doesn’t earn any yet but once she hits Kindergarten later this year, I think it is nice time to begin teaching her these life skills. Thank you for sharing!

    • We didn’t want to just hand our kids an allowance, but realized they couldn’t learn to earn, budget and save if they never had money. So we pay for bigger labor chores so they can learn that earning comes from hard work. Then they have some cash to budget and make choices with.

  10. Definitely important for kids to understand money 🙂 Our little guy doesn’t get money for chores, but he definitely has to help out with putting away groceries, helping Dad shoveling snow, etc. Maybe .25 cents per chore is a good motivator too!

  11. We have this Beth Kobliner book too. I found it so helpful to start my young children out early on with healthy money habits.

  12. These are some great life lessons you are teaching your children. I need to be better about this with my kids. I do love indulging them because I grew up poor and I am able to give them what I never had growing up. I definitely don’t want them growing up to feel entitled though, so I pay them to do certain more labor intensive chores as well and they save their money to buy the things that I feel are extras and they have also learned about tax, which they don’t like haha

  13. It’s so important that children are able to understand the true value of money and how to be sensible with it to help them in adult life. That sounds like a great book!

  14. I should get this for my son. We have started talking to him about money and how to use it wisely. This would be a good book to help us educate him on the topic.

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